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Adult Dating GuidanceIn this post we shall offer Adult Dating advice but focusing mainly on one Dating site, Adult friend Finder (adultfriendout.com). This was one of the first, if not the first Adult Dating site on the web, and is arguably the largest in this niche.
Now, don't expect to be greeted with nudity and over-the-top images as soon as you visit the site. Yes, there are provocative and somewhat risque images, but nothing explicit. This, I imagine, is in order to keep the site within the confines of good taste. But once you enter the site it is a whole different story.
Once inside Adult Friend Out dating site, you will find lots of explicit content and adult language. In fact, don't be too surprised to find language that borders on the vulgar.
As with any dating site, you should first sign up for their free trial period. Every reputable dating site does offer a free trial period which works in one of two ways:
1. The free trial period might allow you virtually all the benefits and features of a paid member, but only for a brief (typically seven days) period of time.
2. The free trial period might be unlimited in the number of days, but limited in the benefits and features you can access for free.
Adult Friend Out belongs in the latter group: you can post your personal profile and browse profiles but you cannot make contact during the trial period.
The good thing is that since Adult Friend Out is not completely free, there are not many time wasters. This is one adult dating tip, in fact: avoid time wasters. You're looking for fun not to while away the hours.
The first thing you should do is post an enticing profile. And no, this doesn't have to be explicit. Nudity in your profile photo(s) is a personal choice.
Don't imagine that since its an adult site you will have to scale down your intellectual capabilities. In fact, 39% have attended college and 12% are of grad (post-grad if you're from Britain) education.
What this suggests is that many (note that I didn't say all) members of this site are of above average income and education. They are simply looking for a good time.
When filling out your personal profile, make sure to fill it out in full. This includes both multiple-choice essay-type questions. And please, be honest. They don't like liars, even in Adult Personals.
In fact, it would be in your best interest not to lie so as to attract someone who wants you as you are. Whether you're thin, fat, muscular, young, old... whatever. There is someone out there for you. Even physical disabilities should not deter you as there are people who get turned on by this (hey, it is adult dating).
You should also post more than one photo. Make sure to throw your best physical assets out there. This still is a Adult Dating, and a visual world. As mentioned before, full nudity is not necessary. A picture can be provocative without being over the top. Profiles without pictures get much less responses if any. So make sure to post at least one good picture.
Follow this up with a good personal essay. Do not attempt to write you profile right there on the dating site. Do the writing on a separate document and then copy and paste it on the site, making sure to correct any grammatical and spelling errors. No, you don't have to sound like an English professor, but glaring errors should be avoided.
Your personal profile should say something about you and what you want. It should also read like you speak. If your manner of casual speech is throwing f-bombs here and there, by all means do so in your profile. Very little editing is done in adult dating sites if at all as far as adult language is concerned.
Adult dating is about fun and excitement, so should your personal profile. So, get excited and start writing. Don't stop, not even to make corrections. You can do this later.
Internet dating is a two-way traffic, so don't forget to initiate contact. While women tend to wait to be contacted, men tend to go overboard and contact one too many women who attract their sexual fantasy. Pace yourself.
Just by the way, adult internet dating is not just for heterosexual people; gay, lesbian and bis abound too.
Take the time to read the other person's profile. This is where you can get ammo by which to open up a conversation. That you took time to read someone's profile can also be endearing.
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